In my last “Love Is” post, I shared why the long-term game in dating is the way to go. And I know I alluded to the physical side of dating, but this post is to make it clear. It is 100% OKAY if you wait to have sex until marriage. You’re not lame. You don’t have to “try it before you buy it.” You’re not naïve, immature, or missing out if you wait until marriage.
I know movies, music, and modern culture can almost pressure you to try things out you might not want to, but remember, those people on screens or stage are not living your life. Listen to YOUR gut and make decisions apart from peer pressure. I’ve seen so many women (and men) regret flippantly handling something that is so intimate, and I know I would have too.
Yessss, I know it’s not the popular opinion to have, but I have zero regrets with waiting until I found the one my soul loves y’all. Was it difficult to wait? Ohhh yes! Was it worth it? Absolutely! If you want to chat, send me a DM, I’m an open book. “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23